The other day Phillip and I received our first wedding gifts. Now, just to show you how varied our interests are, and wide range of friends we have, I thought I’d share them with you. First, we received the most beautiful, hand carved, Buddhist book ends. I just fell in love with them. They were crafted in Bali and sent with a hand written card of thanks. So beautiful. Eventually, I’ll set all of my books that lean towards the spirit in between them, but for now, I’m leaving them bright in the window so that they can be seen by everyone. What we really love about them is that they were sent by one of the kindest people we’ve come to meet on your journey, and we cannot thank her enough for being so mindful of my spiritual path, of my love for books, and the reminder of not just one Buddha, but two, to symbolize Phillip and I. I truly love these book ends!
Then later that day, a coworker of Phillip’s sent home a wedding gift. Knowing my love for “Aliens,” Shane sent along a little Alien figurine for me to keep on my desk. How wonderful was that! Yes, It’s quite true, I’m a big fan of the first two “Alien” films, and watch them often. You see how varied our interests are? We can be reading “A Passage to India” by E.M. Forster the first part of the day, switch to “Aliens” later while having dinner, then crawl into bed to scan a few passages from Thomas Merton’s “The Waters of Siloe.” And because Phillip and I have such wildly eclectic interests, those interests also invite such a great mix of friends. Like all of you! You’re all so different, so unique. And I’m so blessed to have such a beautiful group of people sharing my journey with me.
Tomorrow is the big day. (Thursday 22 Sept). Now, on paper, our anniversary will be the 22nd, but in our little world, and the way we view things, our anniversary will always be the Autumnal Equinox, whatever day that will happen to fall on in the future. Phillip has been so adorable the closer we get to tomorrow. So full of joy. And VERY affectionate. He’s been laughing a lot, smiling a lot, so I know I found the right guy to spend the rest of my life with. His dimples say so. I’m so grateful that I get to see them more and more lately.
So, we wake tomorrow, head to the court house……we’re going to come home, order a pizza, shut off the phones, put a “do not disturb” sign on the front door, binge the latest “Penny Dreadful,” and do what we love to do more than anything. Be with each other. Phillip’s family will be coming up from Ft. Myers on Saturday to meet me, have lunch, and spend the day. (I’m going to convince them to play croquet with me:) ). I’m looking forward to meeting them, and I hope I make a good impression. I’m old school in the manners department, and tend to be a charmer, so I’m hopeful we’ll all get along just fine.
Well, I guess that’s it for now. Next time I blog, I’ll be a married man! Can you just imagine???? Wow……
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Early congratulations to you both, and wishes for many happy years together!
Thank you so much!
All the best to you and Phillip! You deserve every happiness. Enjoy your special day knowing that 10k friends are with you all the way. ❤
Woo hoo! I’m a bride!!!! LOL! Thank you, Andrea 🙂
God Bless you and Phillip. I wish you a lifetime of love and happiness.
Very kind of you, Carol. Thank you! And thanks for mentioning my dancing in your blog 🙂
Happy Wedding Day! And a lifetime of blessed blessings. Love that your anniversary will be the fall equinox.
Mazel Tov! I send to you both my standard blessing: may you be safe, and well, and happy. ❤ ❤ ❤
Julie
May the winds be always at your backs.
Have a wonderful day x
All the best for tomorrow you guys. Have an amazing day, it’s the first in the next part of your life journey together. xxx
Congratulations to you both!!! I hope for all the best of everything for you. Having someone in your life that loves you is a marvelous gift. Having someone to love is an equally marvelous gift. May you both have great joy together.
Sending you both many hugs & wishing you multiple blessings for your special day. May you enjoy many years of peace, harmony and health together.
Super congratulations and blessed Equinox to you both!!
Early congrats to you!! I am so excited for this happy news!! May you both share many, many joyful years together!!
CONGRATULATIONS!!!! Best wishes to you and Phillip and your furbabies….I hope you find married life to be everything you dreamed it to be…
I remember the day before I got married (soon to be 35 years). I was excited and happy and full of joy. I can picture how happy you guys must be. I hope this is just the first of many such days.
Congratulations and many Blessings on you both.
Congratulations to you both!
Best wishes for a happy day and a wonderful future xxx
Oh, Gregory, I’m so happy for you! A thousand blessings to you and Phillip!